ye to sach he ki bhagwan he…….

It can sometimes feel like your mom is your best friend one day and your prison warden the next. Instead of just thinking to yourself What is she doing?, try imagining what it would be like to be in her position. Exercising your empathy muscles isn’t just good for your mom, it’s good for you, too.[4]
For example, if she asked you about your day and you shrugged her off instead of talking, that might have hurt her feelings. If you’re too busy to talk at that moment, express that clearly by saying something like “I have a lot of homework to finish right now, Mom. Can we talk later?” This shows that you do care about connecting with her, even if you can’t do it right then.
Moms can do things that embarrass you; in fact, sometimes it can feel like they specialize in it! Try to imagine why your mom is doing what she’s doing. It could be that she’s babying you because she wants you to feel secure, not because she thinks you’re immature. And hey, you can always ask her why she’s doing what she does.